Thursday, January 14, 2010

Marriage - We are not our Own

A thought prompted by the reading for this Sunday - John 2.1-11

Marriage is more than your love for each other. It has a higher dignity and power, for it is God's holy ordinance, through which he wills to perpetuate the human race till the end of time. In your love you see only your two selves in the world, but in marriage you are a link in the chain of the generations, which God causes to come and to pass away to his glory, and calls into his kingdom.

In your love, you see only the heaven of your own happiness, but in marriage you are placed at a post of responsibility towards the world and mankind. Your love is your own private possession, but marriage is more than something personal—it is a status, an office. Just as it is the crown, and not merely the will to rule, that makes the king, so it is marriage, and not merely your love for each other, that joins you together in the sight of God and man.

As high as God is above man, so high are the sanctity, the rights, and the promise of marriage above the sanctity, the rights, and the promise of love. It is not your love that sustains the marriage, but from now on, the marriage that sustains your love.


--Dietrich Bonhoeffer, "A Wedding Sermon from Prison"

A Prayer for the Holy Estate of Matrimony

O LORD Jesus Christ, who by thy presence and first miracle at Cana of Galilee adorned and beautified the holy estate of matrimony: We beseech thee to sanctify the marriage bond in the life of our people, and to bless our homes with thine abiding presence; for the honour and glory of Thy Name. AMEN

2 comments:

  1. Well Rev Brian you have finally let the masses see what a great priest you are. I am proud to call you friend and role model. Keep up the great work and dedication to our Lord Jesus Christ. Marj

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  2. Thanks Marj for the complement. I'll try not to let it go to my head. :)

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